tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1282718256565463382.post9028188419876214825..comments2023-10-15T03:59:44.358-05:00Comments on The Lea's - Living Life One Moment At A Time: RamblingsJesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12696473538765980676noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1282718256565463382.post-27334382499138203152012-05-16T13:28:13.216-05:002012-05-16T13:28:13.216-05:00ALso... God's original plan was no sickness, n...ALso... God's original plan was no sickness, no death, no miscarriage, no depression. God's perfect plan isn't what we are living with right now. That really makes me feel peaceful, especially thinking about when people say "there's a reason for everything" - you think, well, God did intend my life to be painfree. He is disappointed that it didn't work out that way, either. I am thankful for the Cross.Bld424https://www.blogger.com/profile/12055817016471627038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1282718256565463382.post-43024438417019699862012-05-16T13:26:44.766-05:002012-05-16T13:26:44.766-05:00To comment about the FB quiet... no, that has been...To comment about the FB quiet... no, that has been my experience. I noticed how many people quit talking or just only talked about themselves, so I defriended or stopped following those people.<br /><br />I didn't realize you knew your son was alive before the birth. That is, of course, different than my stories actually, different than almost all stories that I know about. That is kind of special and wonderful. It feels different knowing your baby is already dead and just waiting for the labor to start. Its no better or worse - its just different. Thanks for telling me about this, I never considered this when I consider about having another baby.<br /><br />I am happy you knew the gender before this happened!!! How exciting that Monday must have been.<br /><br />I am so glad to hear your thoughts and your journey. Getting the feelings named and out there seems to help vs. just sleeping them off or numbing them with tv or food. You are healing, girl!Bld424https://www.blogger.com/profile/12055817016471627038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1282718256565463382.post-68463900592394978782012-05-16T12:20:45.984-05:002012-05-16T12:20:45.984-05:00I wish I knew more to do for you or to say... I st...I wish I knew more to do for you or to say... I still think about you all day... I wish I could tell you that it will be all better some day and these feelings will go away. But an anniversary of one of our miscarriages will be on Monday and the feelings and thoughts are still very raw and real and there. It will have been 4 years. and I have had 2 healthy babies since then.<br />Please let me know if I can do anything or say anything or just be there for you.... Hugs and Prayers ~NelNelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12565128618632839097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1282718256565463382.post-30753145411842656412012-05-16T09:46:34.701-05:002012-05-16T09:46:34.701-05:00Hey Jessica u r very strong and beautiful so keep ...Hey Jessica u r very strong and beautiful so keep ur head up and be strong for tose girls and urself love u girlykimber wegleitnernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1282718256565463382.post-88810991060351450322012-05-16T09:36:42.816-05:002012-05-16T09:36:42.816-05:00I'm glad that you're not only verbalizing ...I'm glad that you're not only verbalizing your feelings, but writing them down as well. Don't be concerned about them being fluid or coherent right now...just get them out. They will be healing years down the road when you need to go back to this time. I love you.Ashleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01620535027376861239noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1282718256565463382.post-57861131134148334522012-05-16T07:34:35.959-05:002012-05-16T07:34:35.959-05:00Jessica, I am so sorry for what you're going t...Jessica, I am so sorry for what you're going through. I cannot imagine the pain and the questions. But, you are right about God having a plan. Hold onto that. And, keep talking about your pain openly. We are listening. Sometimes it is hard for us to know what to say. But, know we are praying for you and Ross.Marilyn Lakanernoreply@blogger.com